Okay tonight I get to vent a little.
 
I am constantly amazed by all my friends and their lack of ability to resist the 'packaging' instead of the package' contents.
 
I am talking about relationships here, as its currently affecting me, but is also  affecting my friends.
 
lets just say that a number of my female friends what ' the man' and the man has to be a caring considerate, patient man who  can deal with them and knows how to please a woman and so on.. i mean everyone knows that is what they want.   BUT typically younger ladies tend to think that they can have all of this but the only place to find it is wrapped up in a pretty bow of abs.
 
if I had a dollar for every time that a perfect guy was told that  they aren’t good enough to date  and get stuffed into the 'friend zone box'  then  I would be a zillionaire..
 
When in reality what they ladies are saying is that' hey   you just aren’t pretty enough on the package, and I don't want to open you up and find out that you might not be ' pretty inside too'
 
BAH!@ WHIZZERS!
 
Most times the packaging is not worth the package contents..
 
And you ladies need to take a look inside more..  after all , the guys you want.. NEVER look at your packaging.. they want to see your contents..  and you spend so much time poishing your ribbons that you forget  that the insides  are what keeps your man around..
 
I welcome anyone to have this discussion with me.. 
I encourage it..
even dare you..
( this is short because I have to work overtime tomorrow)